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OK so yahoo posts up this article and I read it and well, here's what I thought about it.  You could either go read the article and see what I said or you could just read what I said...  I think either way you'll be fine...   Anyway here's what I wrote:


Well, I don't know if any of this is actually true for men.  I do know that it's true for ME.  I'm not a man but have been accused of acting like gay man various times.

This is actually a friend of mine named Adrian Dalton.  He had the same predicament as me but did something about it.  She is now a he.  He had a lot of courage!  He's also a female impersonator! :D  Now that's new, isn't it? And I love him for it! :D  Anyway, I'm not quite where he was.  I've only been accused of being a gay man.  He actually knew he was one!  Here's his article if you're interested: Metro Article on Adrian Dalton

Now back to me, I need sex not just because it's a "need" but to feel connected, want to be desired, wanted, loved, all those things....  But what did I end up with?  A guy who's not into sex.  Life sure is weird...

I also struggle with visual temptations... I'm an ogler of hot guys... I can't help it.  I sometimes watch gay porn bc that's where the hot guys are.  I think about these things all the time and it makes me wonder if I'd be a cheater should one of them ACTUALLY pay attention my way.  I doubt it bc I think I'm pretty loyal... but man do those fantasies run off with me...

I can be insecure, I think everyone is though, not just men or just women.  Same thing with feelign disrespected.  No one can love someone who disrespects you.  Why would you want to stay with that?  And no one wants to stay with someone who doesn't love them.

Do men want romance?  I dont know... I don't think so...  I do know I'm supposed to do foreplay and all that jazz but I just don't like it... guys seem to be relieved, so yeah, I don't think they want to do all that romance stuff.  They do it just to get to the finish line.  At least that seems to be my POV on the matter.  I don't know any guy who goes out of their way to be romantic when they can just "do it."

Pretty much sums it up, doesn't it?

And finally....  Visual attraction of your mate.  Now come on, I realise men are "visual beasts" and thus we women have to peacock for them but this is highly unfair.  Yeah I know, who cares?

Just so you know some of us gay man women (myself) need the guy to look good too.  No way in hell am I going to be attracted to a fat, balding, hairy, ugly man.  If I married you pretty, I expect you to stay pretty...within reason.  A 60 y o man who looks 20 is nice but hella creepy!!  No thank you!  Unless of course, you're naturally this way...  yeah right... good luck... lol

But do I want my husband to suddenly gain 100 lbs, lose all his hair and just "let himself go" like it meant nothing? NO.  Come on now, if I have to peacock, so do you!!

I don't know who this guy is, but he sure as hell is NOT SEXY!!!

Now I may be a rare beast, but as such, I deserve better than the average joe.  I'm not conceited.  I just think good for the goose, good for the gander.  I don't demand much, don't let that visual thing fool you.  I'm the best friend you never had and the woman lots of guys want, I think.  Doesn't matter though, I'm a one man show.  I only date one guy at a time and if I'm with you.  I'm with you.  I'm a one track mind when it comes to that sort of thing.
Unless a young brad pitt lookalike shows up... then we got visual problems going on... but don't worry, you wouldn't know it. :)  I'm an ogler, but I'm also respectful.

However, if you ogle out loud (and what guy doesn't?) then it's a fair game.  I'll do it too.  Just as long as we're both clear it's JUST a visual thing.  Beyond that, we got MAJOR problems.  I don't believe in cheating.  I don't want to have it done to me (again) nor would I do that to someone else.  If I find a better fish, I'll dump you first but honestly, I'm very patient.  I'll wait out your fish.  I don't actually leave until I'm really damn sure you're a bad fish.  THEN I'll go find another fish.

Alright, these are my three cents on the matter.  I think I've said plenty and not enough... ;)  And for all you who like hot guys and whose eyes are burning bc of that supreme court dude, here you go, some visual candy for you... OK me...  ;)

No clue who this is either, but he looks good to me from here! :D  I normally like pretty faces but I'm not complaining...his body and background make up for it. :)